Finding A Quality Gay Boyfriend
Finding A Quality Gay Boyfriend
Finding Gay Boyfriends Is NOT Easy!
If you’ve ever watched Sex and the City, you’ve probably heard about how hard it is for women to find a good boyfriend for themselves. Finding a gay boyfriend that you actually can find yourself spending your life with is one of those things that is even harder. A quick glance at local statistics can tell you that the dating pool is much smaller, and that many parts of the US also are not exactly pro-gay. If you want to get a great boyfriend who happens to enjoy the company of men, it’s often best to take a look at these tips:Look for a gay chat near you. Believe it or not, chatrooms aren’t all seedy, grimy, or gross. Many gay and bisexual men frequent chat rooms that cater to the LGBTQ community because it’s easier to do than to navigate Craigslist or even certain dating sites. And, many chats that are offered on sites are focused on bringing gay men of the local community together. What better way to meet a slew of local men all at one time?
Do sign up for a gay dating site or two. The more gay dating services you sign up for, the better. Both free and paid sites may have different clients, and you never know which site might have your Mr. Right…or just your Mr.Right now. The rule of big numbers suggests that the more gay men you have to choose from, the more likely it is that you’ll find an amazing match who really gets you.
Don’t get discouraged by some of the weird dates and nutjobs out there. Even the best gay dating site is bound to have one or two men who are simply unstable or not fit to date. You simply cannot allow yourself to give up just because a couple of dates from a dating site ended up getting weird. You never really know if that next date will be the date of your dreams.
You also have to get to know the guy before you meet in person. Stories of dates gone violent are actually scarily common, and in order to avoid finding a gay boyfriend who is borderline psychotic, the best tactic a man can use is to chat with potential dates for a week or so before they set up a meeting plan. This not only keeps you from having to do as much damage control, but also weeds out men who joined the dating site or scene for a simple one-time fling.
Make it clear what you’re looking for. Whether you’re on a gay chat, a dating site, or just a local meetup, you want to make it clear to others what you are looking for. Don’t say you want a quick fling if you really want a relationship, and don’t say you want to meet gay men for LTR’s when you really just want to get into a man’s pants. That just wastes both you and your potential date’s time, energy, and emotions.
Lastly, it’s crucial to keep a good head on your shoulders while you navigate the dating scene. A lot of gay dating requires both patience and common sense. If you don’t think that something is a good idea, or if you think that your profile sends the wrong message, you’re probably right.